Israeli Kindergarten. Dual-income couples often arrived late to pick up their children. As a result, the kindergarten implemented a rule that parents would face a fine if they were late; however, even though this introduced a penalty system, it also led to more delays in pickup times. By replacing feelings of guilt with money, paying a fee for being late became the new norm. After recognizing the mistake and removing the fine system, what happened? More parents started arriving late. When money becomes involved, the exchange of value fundamentally changes the nature of the relationship. And once that change occurs, it doesn’t revert. - Joseph’s “just my thoughts”
It is often said that blessings are not merely given or received, but discovered. If you fail to recognize the worth of what you already possess, you may overlook its significance, even if it is genuinely offered by someone. Value arises from comparison; yet a person’s sense of worth must originate from within. It is essential to cultivate self-esteem in order to appreciate and take pride in your own possessions, rather than measuring yourself against others. Only then can you establish the right values... - Joseph’s “just my thoughts”