Israeli Kindergarten. Dual-income couples often arrived late to pick up their children. As a result, the kindergarten implemented a rule that parents would face a fine if they were late; however, even though this introduced a penalty system, it also led to more delays in pickup times. By replacing feelings of guilt with money, paying a fee for being late became the new norm. After recognizing the mistake and removing the fine system, what happened? More parents started arriving late. When money becomes involved, the exchange of value fundamentally changes the nature of the relationship. And once that change occurs, it doesn’t revert. - Joseph’s “just my thoughts”
Once we complete our hard work as a team, we celebrate together with a party. This event allows everyone to set aside any grudges and offer comfort and encouragement to one another. Such emotional exchanges contribute to the overall success of our efforts. Regardless of the work’s significance, its value and meaning diminish without these small yet crucial emotional rewards. In fact, lingering feelings of resentment or vengeance can arise in the absence of such acknowledgment, revealing a complex emotional landscape. A great leader understands and values these emotional experiences. - Joseph’s “just my thoughts”