Longing: A lonely heart can be filled by someone, but a longing heart is a heart that cannot be filled by ‘the particular person.’ When the mind feels strange, it is important to first determine whether the feeling stems from a lack of self-generated needs or from not being filled by the object of longing. Loneliness can progress easily, but longing carries a high risk of self-destruction if not handled carefully. - Joseph’s “just my thoughts”
It is often said that blessings are not merely given or received, but discovered. If you fail to recognize the worth of what you already possess, you may overlook its significance, even if it is genuinely offered by someone. Value arises from comparison; yet a person’s sense of worth must originate from within. It is essential to cultivate self-esteem in order to appreciate and take pride in your own possessions, rather than measuring yourself against others. Only then can you establish the right values... - Joseph’s “just my thoughts”